Fardawsa Yusuf

Bismillaah One of the ways I can get things off my chest is by writing. I havent met anyone more patient then the pen andpaper. It's not going to tell you, "I'm done having you write your frustration upon me, enough with you.." It'll just allow you untill you get tired. And I love it, its my silent way of venting whatever I cant get myself to tell the people. You know its frustrating not being able to express yourself without being judged, or without being given a solution to "fix" your problem. I wish I could just be heard without anything being offered to me other than understanding and maybe some sympathy too.   If someone comes to you with a problem Im pretty sure they know exactly what the solution is. In fact they're probably not looking for a solution, but someone to have some from of sympathy for them. They may not even want the problem fixed and heck arent gonna do anything about it. But they do want open ears and a good amount of

Bismillaah Even though when you look around and you see people with smiles, people going for walks with their hands held, lovers dining together, the cashier telling you to have a good day when you leave...its not all that it seems.   And I realized just how frustrating things can be today. And when I felt that sadness and annoyance, and that mountain over my shoulders...I realized...This is what some people go throught every day. Alhamdulillah for me it was just a few hours...but some people, its endless. And I really began to think. Everyone needs to be uplifted sometimes. Life is not a bag of roses. Its not, not even to the roses themselves. And its interesting how some can handle it better than others. Way better than others. I began to question myself. Do I bring ease and happiness and laughter to others? Am I the one to make another persons rough day more enjoyable for them..Or do I drag people down?    People are fragile beings, holy...too fragile. So fragile something that

Bismillaah    I've been thinking lately. About men and and their emotional needs. And I've come to realize that being desired is one of their top main emotional needs. Interesting actually. They want to be wanted. Not needed necessarily but wanted, found attractive. How many times have you heard a guy say, "She likes me bro..." As if they've accomplished something, and they have kinda. They want to feel and know that their woman find them appealing.    But this is where the problem starts. In marriages. How often will a man feel desired by his wife? How often will  a wife tell her husband how much she finds him handsome? Men need to hear this from their wives, they need this attention, or validation or whatever its called. And the sad thing is, they don't get it. But they do get it from other women, women that could possibly be threat to their happiness at home.    And its understandable. But at the same time, a really big, big problem. Because not onl

Bismillaah Oh my God, its been too long since I've written. But tonight I feel inspired...So whose ready for this? The Search for the Soul Mate If there's anything I want to take from this world, and enter the next life with, its my soul mate. I cant feel as if I've completely lived, with satisfaction until I found my soul mate. And funny, I still havent, although one always has someone in mind, you never actually know until...well you'll find out soon. And its interesting how a person can easily fall in love with someone. It just happens. I dont know, when you least expect it. Sometimes it starts with a sweeping suggestion..During salaat. And its the strangest things because thats when it all starts. The wheels begin there in motion. And if it seems like a good idea, you delve in trying to find whatever will show you more about this person. Amazing how us as people have our other halves, somewhere out in the world. And we're not complete phys