Fardawsa Yusuf

Bismillaah A night or two ago I was talking with my sisters about, you know our future plans and the stuff  we wanted to do in our lives differently from now on and so we did it together hoping that maybe our ideas could inspire each other to come up with different ideas. And I always like when we can do these things collectively because the ideas that come out of them are just phenomenal sometimes. Of all the things that were written, one thing was mentioned that really caught my eye. It was a suggestion from my youngest sister, well the youngest in the family and her idea was absolutely fantastic. She suggested we put more zest into our lives. You know how in movies things are exaggerated? But that's what makes it so fun to watch. The enthusiasm. Everything is just like given more energy. Thoughts, words, gestures that you normally wouldnt see around are expressed and accepted and appreciated wholeheartedly. Kinda like how all the ways we'd like to be treated are what

Take care of yourself now when your still young because there will come a time when you realize that nobody really cared anyways. And if they did care, they had their own things to worry about. You'll meet a few exceptional people that will go out their way to you they show you they care, those exceptional people being your parents and close family may God bless them, but the majority wont because they're caught up in the rat race of life. They wont even notice a thing. So take care of yourself, not just because no one will notice when you fall apart, but because there are others who are in worse off condition than you who need your help and support. Who will look after their needs, especially when the majority of people are distracted anyways. Who will remember the people of Gaza, the people of Somalia, the people suffering in other parts of the world that nobody has even come to realize yet. Health, is a blessing most fail to appreciate. And when you fall sick, then you

You know, I never really appreciated this one thing before. I never really appreciated the fact that the main criteria in choosing a mate should be one's taqwa. Because I didnt really fully understand its implications.. And I've learned that its not about facial features of body size at all. In the beginning obviously its about the looks you know, that's what keeps you attracted. Because if there's no attraction, quite frankly, you dont really wanna have anything to do with them, meaning in pursuing them...for marriage. But if they are attractive to you, then okay, we have a good start. And please, let me stress the importance of remaining attractive for your husband or wife. It does matter. It really does. Especially when you have whatever is going on out there, with the actresses and models and the whatever else, you gotta keep up. You cannot allow yourself to be outdone by what they have out there, because most of time, whats out there is not real . Its pinche