The Traditional Lifestyle
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When I think of the word traditional, I imagine something delicious baking in the oven in the early hours of the morning. And a warm kitchen. With someone in it making something.
Let me tell you, I love the traditional ways. Most people would cringe at the sound of it. But I like it. I like the idea of a woman staying at home. I really do. Many would disagree, saying," No, but you have to go out, you have to go out and work.." Because aparently if you go out, then you have "a life". I couldnt disagree more.
A woman has the right to her own wealth, and accumulating it is not the issue. The issue is what she has to ecounter with in order to earn that wealth. I hate the idea of a woman mixing with other men to "earn a living"
A woman can earn a living from the depths of her own home. Going out does not gaurantee that you will earn. The Rizq comes from Allah, and it will find you whereever you are if its destined for you.
A woman can live the traditionally, staying at home, and looking after the family and she can also earna living too, from her own home! That way she can gaurd her modesty and keep her duty to Allah.
If a person has Taqwa of Allah and avoids, to the best of their ability what would displease him, then Allah will open the doors of sustenance to them with from places they could never have enen imagined.
Ofcourse if a woman wants to work from home to help herself and her family she's gonna need some help. Its not easy balancing family and work and then yourself too on top of that. She will need a husband that will give her the time she needs to focus on her tasks. She'll need a partner that will assist her in her chores and make things easy for her. And she's gonna need someone who will respect her and her time.
A financially stable woman can do wonders for herself and her family. First of all, she'll save her husband the hassle and annoyance of always asking him for what she needs. Second, she can use that money to improve her looks, if she's lacking, buying whatever she needs. What woman doesnt desire to look great and be admired by her husband, huh? We want to look gorgeous, so give us that freedom to be able to afford to look gorgeous. Some women, want to to help their families out financially too and be something like Khadija (RA) If they can afford to.
The life of wife cannot only be in the realms of the kitchen. It cannot. Some of us desire to make a difference in the community, and to be an assest not only in marital life but in the community as well. There should be time for her to learn, teach, console, invite and inspire. She needs a social life within the confines of her home, to be connected to her people.
When I think of the word traditional, I imagine something delicious baking in the oven in the early hours of the morning. And a warm kitchen. With someone in it making something.
Let me tell you, I love the traditional ways. Most people would cringe at the sound of it. But I like it. I like the idea of a woman staying at home. I really do. Many would disagree, saying," No, but you have to go out, you have to go out and work.." Because aparently if you go out, then you have "a life". I couldnt disagree more.
A woman has the right to her own wealth, and accumulating it is not the issue. The issue is what she has to ecounter with in order to earn that wealth. I hate the idea of a woman mixing with other men to "earn a living"
A woman can earn a living from the depths of her own home. Going out does not gaurantee that you will earn. The Rizq comes from Allah, and it will find you whereever you are if its destined for you.
A woman can live the traditionally, staying at home, and looking after the family and she can also earna living too, from her own home! That way she can gaurd her modesty and keep her duty to Allah.
If a person has Taqwa of Allah and avoids, to the best of their ability what would displease him, then Allah will open the doors of sustenance to them with from places they could never have enen imagined.
Ofcourse if a woman wants to work from home to help herself and her family she's gonna need some help. Its not easy balancing family and work and then yourself too on top of that. She will need a husband that will give her the time she needs to focus on her tasks. She'll need a partner that will assist her in her chores and make things easy for her. And she's gonna need someone who will respect her and her time.
A financially stable woman can do wonders for herself and her family. First of all, she'll save her husband the hassle and annoyance of always asking him for what she needs. Second, she can use that money to improve her looks, if she's lacking, buying whatever she needs. What woman doesnt desire to look great and be admired by her husband, huh? We want to look gorgeous, so give us that freedom to be able to afford to look gorgeous. Some women, want to to help their families out financially too and be something like Khadija (RA) If they can afford to.
The life of wife cannot only be in the realms of the kitchen. It cannot. Some of us desire to make a difference in the community, and to be an assest not only in marital life but in the community as well. There should be time for her to learn, teach, console, invite and inspire. She needs a social life within the confines of her home, to be connected to her people.
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