Bismillaah I've been thinking lately. About men and and their emotional needs. And I've come to realize that being desired is one of their top main emotional needs. Interesting actually. They want to be wanted. Not needed necessarily but wanted, found attractive. How many times have you heard a guy say, "She likes me bro..." As if they've accomplished something, and they have kinda. They want to feel and know that their woman find them appealing. But this is where the problem starts. In marriages. How often will a man feel desired by his wife? How often will a wife tell her husband how much she finds him handsome? Men need to hear this from their wives, they need this attention, or validation or whatever its called. And the sad thing is, they don't get it. But they do get it from other women, women that could possibly be threat to their happiness at home. And its understandable. But at the same time, a really big, big problem. Because...
It is reported that ‘Abdullâh b. Mas’ûd – Allâh be pleased with him – said: The house in which the Qur’ân is not recited is like a derelict house that has no one to maintain it. It is also reported that he said: Verily the emptiest of houses are those that are empty of the Book of Allâh. It is reported that Abû Hurayrah – Allâh be pleased with him – used to say about the house in which the Qur’ân is recited: It becomes spacious for its inhabitants, the good of it becomes plentiful, the angels come to it and the devils leave it. And the house in which the Qur’ân is not recited becomes cramped for its inhabitants, has little good in it, and the devils come to it.
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