Bismillaah I've been thinking lately. About men and and their emotional needs. And I've come to realize that being desired is one of their top main emotional needs. Interesting actually. They want to be wanted. Not needed necessarily but wanted, found attractive. How many times have you heard a guy say, "She likes me bro..." As if they've accomplished something, and they have kinda. They want to feel and know that their woman find them appealing. But this is where the problem starts. In marriages. How often will a man feel desired by his wife? How often will a wife tell her husband how much she finds him handsome? Men need to hear this from their wives, they need this attention, or validation or whatever its called. And the sad thing is, they don't get it. But they do get it from other women, women that could possibly be threat to their happiness at home. And its understandable. But at the same time, a really big, big problem. Because...
Bismillaah "Beautified for mankind is love of the joys (that come) from women and offspring; and stored-up heaps of gold and silver, and horses branded (with their mark), and cattle and land. That is comfort of the life of the world. Allah! With Him is a more excellent abode." ( Chapter 3 verse 14) Sometimes women are oblivious to what extent they can affect a man. Totally oblivious. Some of us don't know what is going on inside their minds when we speak and dress in a certain way. But in reality they have weakness for women. And its hidden. Lets see what Psychology today has to say about their survey conducted, asking "What men love about Women" “Phew. I am not sure if there is enough space here to list everything.” “What we like: your gentleness, your warmth. “Women are closer to emotions, and I find that women represent beauty that you just cannot find anywhere else in the world.” “I can ...
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